Some belongings you realise solely if you find yourself a mum.

I didn’t know, as an illustration, that going swimming would for years entail shifting in water in a household pod like porpoises.

At first, it was as a result of the youngsters have been too younger so it was one dad or mum watching one youngster every within the child swimming pools. Now, although my 11-year-old son can dive to the underside of a deep pool to fetch bricks, habits acquired within the early years of parenting die onerous. Swimming classes have been disrupted throughout Covid-19 for his sister, who’s seven, so she nonetheless can’t swim correctly.

I’m on a solo staycation at Fairmont Singapore and doing laps within the pool with out checking on my offspring is bliss.

There are extra goodies to come back.

This one-night “Mumcation” package deal, billed as an interlude for moms to take pleasure in some coveted me-time, is full of pre-parenthood mirages: A 90-minute aromatherapy therapeutic massage, excessive tea the place you may invite a good friend and breakfast in mattress. You even get bathtub merchandise from Lush Singapore and a set of loungewear from Uniqlo.

To be trustworthy, within the trenches of the toddler years, going to the general public bathroom by yourself, with out a little human who must pee and may’t work the lock, can really feel like me-time.

The bar is ready larger when the youngsters get older. Nonetheless, for a lot of harried mother and father, time-intensive pampering is a scarce commodity.

Luxurious self-care within the time of coronavirus seems to be oddly intense.

Throughout my therapeutic massage on the lodge’s Willow Stream Spa, a heated towel positioned on the soles of my toes sends a surge of toasty heat up my legs as I soak up whiffs of rosemary important oil with its woody notes.

The masseuse, palms tightly gloved in plastic due to Covid-19, is unfurling all my knotted muscle mass.


    WHERE: 80 Bras Basah Highway


    RATES: The Mumcation, legitimate until Dec 30, is priced at $385++ for a single visitor and $495++ for 2. The package deal features a 90-minute Aromatherapy Rest Therapeutic massage at Willow Stream Spa, breakfast in mattress or at Prego restaurant, excessive tea in Anti:dote tea lounge, a shower set from Lush Singapore and Uniqlo loungewear.

I’ve solely had a few massages for the reason that children have been born and normally simply drift off to sleep.

However my senses are heightened this time. Maybe it’s a response to how the pandemic has disadvantaged us of bodily contact – the place handshakes are taboo and good buddies get smizes as a substitute of hugs.

The staycation at Fairmont Singapore, which hyperlinks on to Raffles Metropolis Purchasing Centre, is a sensory fest in different methods too.

From the non-public balcony of my room on the 20th storey, I can see the Esplanade, Marina Bay Sands, St Andrew’s Cathedral, Nationwide Gallery Singapore and even the Merlion. It’s like enjoying “The place’s Wally?” with Singapore landmarks.

My so-called “tai-tai life” continues with afternoon tea at Anti:dote, a tea lounge on the lodge which morphs right into a cocktail bar at evening. Attempt the assertive lemon curd with clotted cream on scones; strawberry jam is for plebs. The trout roe on the salmon gravlax pops with briny umami.

The following morning, breakfast in mattress from Prego, the Italian restaurant downstairs, is delivered. It’s a bountiful providing of hash browns, eggs any which method, too many pastries, French butter and extra.

I’m away from the youngsters, however the hausfrau inside baulks at potential crumbs within the sheets.

Ladies’s self-care and wellness typically include a “pink is for women” veneer that I’m ambivalent about. But, it’s exactly the performative side of the scents, sweets and spas cliche that appeals.

In spite of everything, how typically do I purchase one thing like a face and physique masks? By no means, I believe, as I slap on Masks of Magnaminty by Lush. I don’t have a rain bathe at dwelling. And, hey, I odor like peppermint chocolate. 


Attempt the La Vie En Rose cocktail ($20) at Anti:dote lounge. The sweetness of the peach and rose liqueur is balanced by vodka and lemon. Its refined depth of flavour will tempt you to order a second one. 

— to

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *